Monday, March 3, 2008

"The Five People You Meet in Heaven" Is Difficult to Understand But Rewarding

"The Five People You Meet in Heaven" Is Difficult to Understand But Rewarding
Copyright © 2007 Ed Bagley

The Five People You Meet in Heaven - 2 Stars (Average)

For anyone who has read Mitch Albom's book Tuesdays With
Morrie, it was axiomatic to read The Five People You Meet
in Heaven and then see the movie.

Albom was asked why it took him so long between his first
two books, he said "To be honest, I was a bit overwhelmed
by Tuesdays' success. At first, nobody wanted to publish
that book or talk much about it.

"Then, suddenly, all anyone wanted me to do was write a
sequel. I knew I didn't want to do that. I said everything
in that book that I had to say about the last class between
Morrie and me. So I waited until something inspired me the
way that book did. It just happened to take six years."

When asked if anything Morrie had said led to the story
line of "Five People" he revealed the fact that "Morrie
often told a story about waves, and how when they hit the
shore they ceased to exist-unless you realized that, in
truth, they weren't really waves at all, they were part of
the ocean.

"Morrie saw himself that way, as part of something
connected to a bigger humanity. In the Five People, I sort
of explore that idea, that we are all connected to each
other in ways we don't even realize, and that perhaps, when
your life is over, you may find out all the other 'waves'
in this big ocean that you affected without even knowing
it."

These insights show the integrity and sensitivity of Mitch
Albom, who also penned the movie script for his book. Albom
works for the Detroit Free Press and is arguably one of
best sportswriters in the United States. His work in "Five
People" shows flashes of his pure writing talent.

The Five People You Meet in Heaven is the story of Eddie
(Jon Voight), a simple man living a simple life as a
maintenance man who has a regret and an ache in his heart.

He spends his entire life berating himself because he never
left the amusement park to pursue his dream of becoming an
engineer. He blames everyone but himself for not getting on
in the world. This is his regret, and he feels that his
life has been wasted.

Eddie dies on his 83rd birthday while trying to save a
little girl from a falling cart in a roller coaster ride
gone bad, and develops an ache in his heart. With his final
breath, he feels two small hands in his as he tries to pull
the girl away-and then nothing.

He dies not knowing if he saved the girl's life or not.

He awakens in Heaven and is destined to meet five people,
loved ones and distant strangers who form a thread in his
life that when woven into a fabric explain the meaning of
his life.

Each person shares with Eddie a lesson in life that he
failed to learn on Earth.

Albom's writing skills shine through in these memorable
quotes from the five characters:

Ruby: "Holding anger is a poison. It eats you from inside.
We think that by hating someone we hurt them. But hatred is
a curved blade. And the harm we do to others, we also do to
ourselves."

Blue Man: "There are no random acts. We are all connected.
You can no more separate one life from another than you can
separate a breeze from the wind."

Blue Man: "In heaven, there is no judgment, but rather an
opportunity to examine our lives-who we touched, the
choices we made, and the consequences of those choices."

Blue Man: "Strangers are family you have yet to come to
know."

Marguerite (Eddie's wife who precedes him in death): "Lost
love is still love, Eddie. It just takes a different form,
that's all. You can't hold their hand, you can't tousle
their hair. But when those senses weaken another one comes
to life. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You hold it.
You dance with it. Life has to end, Eddie. Love doesn't."

Be forewarned that The Five People You Meet in Heaven can
and probably will bring tears to your eyes, and make your
throat retract and become sore with tension. This is no
movie for children of any age, adults can hardly deal with
it and attempt to understand the subject matter and
significance of its message.

This movie has an incredible ending that allows Eddie to
finally understand the meaning of his life. I will not
reveal the ending here, you must see the ending to earn its
blessing.

This is an extremely complicated story, and the movie does
not make the story any easier to understand and follow. It
forces us to examine our existence here on earth; however,
the story and the movie are worth the effort if you have
any spiritual development.

The only other movie I have seen more complicated to
understand is The Hours, which was far more miserable,
depressing and dramatically overdone despite some serious
Oscar attention (Best Actress Oscar for Nicole Kidman and 8
other nominations, including Best Picture, Best Director
Stephen Daldry, Best Supporting Actor Ed Harris and Best
Supporting Actress Julianne Moore).

Because of its complexity The Five People You Meet in
Heaven earned little, if any, critical acclaim or
accolades. This is why I write reviews. With no one to sing
its praises, the voice of understanding goes silent.
Silence is a void that is unbearable.

Perhaps Albom's effort falls short of reaching more people
because he is a writer and not a philosopher. A writer like
Albom can craft a beautiful sentence that a reader like me
can appreciate. A philosopher can craft another sentence
that immediately strikes a chord with nearly everyone.

Great poets often achieve this heartfelt effect, perhaps
they are philosophers too.

I would have given The Five People You Meet in Heaven a 3
rating in a heartbeat (very high in my system) if it were
not so difficult for viewers to digest and appreciate. I
would see this movie again, and was a better person for
having seen it the first time.


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The Artistically Dysfunctional Individual's Guide to Choosing Artwork for the Home

The Artistically Dysfunctional Individual's Guide to Choosing Artwork for the Home
The Wow Factor

Did you ever walk into someone's home and look around and
suddenly become embarrassed by your own homes décor?
It just seems that some people are artistically gifted
while the rest of us suffer from some form of artistic
dysfunction. It can be irritating to have to try so hard
just to hang some pictures. But once you get the knack of
things, it is really not so hard and your home's interior
can remind you of those homes with that special Wow factor.

Artwork, by its very nature, is a personal expression and
every individual will receive it on a personal level. Some
paintings just call to you and you simply have to have it
while others just do not make sense. This is true for
everyone, and not just the artistically challenged.

Start Small and Simple

If you are ready to tackle some new and improved decorating
ideas, and ready to start with the artwork that hangs on
your walls, then pick a room and jump right in. It is
usually best to start with your favorite room in the house
simply because this room is probably a place that you
already have a vision, even if it is very small. Most
people have white walls, but if you have a bit more splash
to your room, that will work just fine as well. Start small
and just pick a color scheme. Just like that. Something
that will compliment what is already painted or wallpapered
to the room, but one color that really works for you. It is
okay to be daring and go with reds, greens, blues, or even
yellows and oranges. Often, once we have latched onto a
basic color scheme, us artistically challenged can work
through our dysfunction and move forward. However, part of
our dysfunction is the tendency to over use our color.
Start small, but stay simple.

Let us say we were having a bold day and we picked orange
for our color scheme. We do not need paintings and artwork
that are completely orange. Maybe just one nice piece that
is mostly orange, but the rest should just have a little of
that color reflected in the work.

Themes, Clashes, and Other Artwork Disasters

Rule number one in overcoming artistic dysfunction is never
mix styles and themes in the same room. Some people can get
away with that and it looks fabulous. But we are not so
fortunate and we must keep it very simple. If your orange
room has one lovely impressionist piece in it, then stay
with various forms of impressionist artwork throughout the
room. Some experts say that you should maintain the same
style throughout the entire home. Others say to vary but
only room by room. I am in favor of room by room because I
do not like boredom, and too much repetition is boredom.

Some colors work well with others and other colors are an
atrocious disaster when blended or even in the same state
as another color. I have yet to see a well blended sample
of orange and pink, although I am sure some highly creative
type compiled them beautifully.

If you are not sure, ask. Asking questions and gathering
ideas from other people is the best way to learn. If you
are looking for specific answers then you have to ask
specific questions. Bring a photo and explain that you are
looking for something that will compliment painting well,
not match it. Part of learning the fine art of decorating
with artwork is learning to compliment pieces rather than
match them. You do not have to be pushed in purchasing
something you do not like, but the experience of watching
someone find you a painting that compliments the one you
started with can be very beneficial. In fact, after a few
tries, you may even begin looking yourself, with
confidence. By enhancing your decorating talents step by
little tiny baby step, you will be able to put together
impressive themes and décor without wasting money on
pieces that do not work.


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10 St. Patrick's Day Quotes To Celebrate The Famous Irish Saint

10 St. Patrick's Day Quotes To Celebrate The Famous Irish Saint
When St. Patrick's Day comes around people usually think
about corned beef, clovers and beer, but these St.
Patrick's Day quotes go to show you that the holiday is
about much more than that. If you want to get in on the St.
Patrick's Day celebration, here are some fun and festive
quotes to get you started...

1. "St. Patrick's Day is an enchanted time - a day to begin
transforming winter's dreams into summer's magic." ~
Adrienne Cook

2. "Anyone acquainted with Ireland knows that the morning
of St. Patrick's Day consists of the night of the 17th of
March flavored strongly with the morning of the 18th." ~
Author Unknown

3. "St. Patrick... one of the few saints whose feast day
presents the opportunity to get determinedly whacked and
make a fool of oneself all under the guise of acting
Irish." ~ Charles M. Madigan

4. "St. Patrick's Day is a religious holiday in Ireland.
The first thing you do is go to church." ~ Dermott Reid

5. "Everybody is Irish on St. Patrick's Day. We want people
to enjoy themselves and learn something about the great
culture and traditions of Ireland." ~ John Keane

6. "Today is St. Patrick's Day. We celebrate our faith and
heritage, everything else is secondary." ~ John Dunleavy

7. "Roughly 1 in 6 Americans have Irish blood. I'd say it's
probably safe to assume that the average Irish-American who
only comes out on St. Patrick's Day has no idea of the sort
of economic powerhouse Ireland has become." ~ Scott
McClellan

8. "We tend to think of St. Patrick's Day as one big Irish
party. However, St. Patrick's Day means something special
to Irish people around the world. There is much that pulls
the world apart today, but St. Patrick's Day is a time to
start all over again and celebrate the positive things we
all share in life!" ~ Dr. Sam Speron

9. "Nobody gets upset with the Irish on St. Patrick's Day."
~ Gabriela Lemus

10. "The list of Irish saints is past counting; but in it
all no other figure is so human, friendly, and lovable as
St. Patrick - who was an Irishman only by adoption." ~
Stephen Gwynn

And while not technically a quote, there's no St. Patrick's
Day celebration without an Irish toast:

Here's to a long life and a merry one. A quick death and an
easy one. A pretty girl and an honest one. A cold drink -
and another one!


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